I was writing a check this morning and looked at my signature. I have had my last name more than half my life. I have had this name ever since I was an adult.
This name.
The name that belongs to my sons.
"We are.... and we do not act like that", I would remind my sons at least a thousand times through their adolescence. Even though my marriage had ended, the name was important... it linked me to my adulthood and linked my boys to their dad and his family.
In less than one year, for the first time in more than two and a half decades, my name will change. For the first time, my sir name will be different than my sons' name. And with the name change will come a change in my life.
I will no longer identify myself as "divorced"... "Married" will be my new pick when filling out forms.
I will be some one's wife. And while by no means is that bad, it is strangely surreal to me at this moment. I will be part of a union ... the Mrs. in the "Mr. & Mrs."
Surreal. Just surreal...
Saturday, October 6, 2012
Tuesday, September 18, 2012
12 Things I've Learned So Far
I've been on a diet since March 20, 2012. I have eaten what I like, but less of it. Some days it has been extremely difficult & other days, it's fine. The reality is not only do I like to eat, you must eat to live. Eating isn't like smoking... you can't just quit, so learning how to manage what I eat is my best hope for a non-obese life.
While on this dieting journey to my perfect size, I have realized a lot of things about food, diets & all the "advice" I've read about dieting... and most importantly why dieting didn't work for me in the past. So below are the first dozen things I learned thus far...
#1- Not only do I like to eat, I HATE - got it???? H A T E to exercise! Really, I do hate it! And by exercise I mean "going to the gym", "running", "jazzercise"; "walking 60 minutes a day", "walking on the treadmill"; "sit ups"; "push ups" or any other thing that I was forced to do in gym class so many years ago.
#2 - "Exercise" actually means "movement" - any kind of movement... So while I don't walk every day, I do try to go "play in the dirt" at least weekly. Pulling weeds, transplanting flowers and shrubs, carrying bags of mulch & soil around the yard is movement, therefore counts as "exercise". And, cleaning the bathroom, mopping the floor, vacuuming, washing windows, even cooking & going grocery shopping are considered exercise. When I log all my activities into a tracking tool & see how many calories I burned, I feel like I've accomplished something. It's motivating!
#3 - From a purely volume perspective, I really didn't eat all that much - but from a calorie perspective - well, it's no wonder I got so big!
#4 - In order for the scale to move in the right direction, I MUST limit my salt intake and I MUST drink water. The least little bit of salt winds up pushing the scale up 1 or 2 pounds in a day! And while I know it is "water weight", if I'm honest with myself, it is still discouraging to see the scale creep up even a pound... So--- I am trying to remove it from my diet & it isn't easy.
#5 - I must weigh myself daily - at the same time & on the same scale & the scale must be in the same exact spot on the floor. I do this to focus on weight change - and deviating from any of these can cause the weight change to not measure accurately! I find it so odd that if I move my scale to the left or right, that my weight will change - within seconds - so there is something to this theory - for me at least. I'm a science focused person, so I do need to see changes in the scale and be able to correlate them to my food intake--- No once a week weigh in for me - been there, done that & failed.
#6 - I do like vegetables. And while I prefer pasta, potatoes and rice (in that order), I really can do without a ton of it if I have good veggies on the plate as well. I toss them in olive oil, add some seasonings & roast them to bring out the sweetness or the intense savory flavor. Meat - well, I can take it or leave it...
#7- I eat candy when I want to eat candy - like today after a particularly hard day at work, I went to the store and got 1 Snickers bar. The key is that I can't buy the pack with lots of little candy inside because if it here, I will eat it! Same goes for muffins - so I will only be making these on Saturday when I know I will be taking them to church to share on Sunday!
#8 - While I am much bigger than I want to be -( I've got between 40 & 50) more pounds to go, I feel great that I have actually lost 30 pounds! I don't look like I want, but my good curves are beginning to show again and that is a good motivator to choose my foods wisely.
#9 - Kitty was right. After 12 weeks on the diet it got considerably easier to stick with it. I've been on for almost 6 months & with the exception of when I am baking, I dono't really feel deprived.
#10 - 10 pounds lost does not correlate to 1 pants size! That's nuts. I have lost 30 pounds and I have only went down a little over 1 pants size! I have lost plenty of inches off my waist, but my hips, thighs and butt are moving at a much slower pace. So while plenty of people say "throw the scale out & watch your clothes"... that would never work for me! I don't loose weight in a specific spot... I loose weight all over. so while 20 pounds lost did show up in my face and my hands (my ring started slipping off), it didn't show up that much on the lower half of my body. Without the daily scale, I would have never been able to stick with this process so long. I need my scale! I'm even thinking about taking it on the cruise with me in 8 weeks!
#11 - To be successful, I have to be fanatically strict about my food when I am traveling! Eating in airports is rarely good for me. Too much salt and sugar... just too much of everything! I have to make sure I eat before meetings (so I can avoid the muffins, bagels & croissants they always put out around 9:30 or so). And I have to drink water! For some reason when I eat junk while I'm traveling it seems to send the scale up faster than when I am home... Odd, but I've found it to be true (for me at least).
#12 - So going back to the beginning... after 6 months, I still hate exercise & won't be doing any "standard" exercises any time soon ( or ever!). I have, started living like I did pre beseness (that might not be a word -lol)... I did not get in the car to go to a store that was a 1/2 mile away. I did not sit for 9-10 hours a day without taking time to eat lunch - even if lunch was only a slice of pizza!; I did not eat pasta every chance I got. I did however, eat popcorn at the movies, I ate something every morning & I ate lunch every day. Dinner was often skipped because I truly wasn't hungry. I enjoyed the outside & enjoyed the neighborhood. I went dancing, I tried new things. In essence, I moved more. And since I have now hit the inevitable plateau, my plan is to move more!
While on this dieting journey to my perfect size, I have realized a lot of things about food, diets & all the "advice" I've read about dieting... and most importantly why dieting didn't work for me in the past. So below are the first dozen things I learned thus far...
#1- Not only do I like to eat, I HATE - got it???? H A T E to exercise! Really, I do hate it! And by exercise I mean "going to the gym", "running", "jazzercise"; "walking 60 minutes a day", "walking on the treadmill"; "sit ups"; "push ups" or any other thing that I was forced to do in gym class so many years ago.
#2 - "Exercise" actually means "movement" - any kind of movement... So while I don't walk every day, I do try to go "play in the dirt" at least weekly. Pulling weeds, transplanting flowers and shrubs, carrying bags of mulch & soil around the yard is movement, therefore counts as "exercise". And, cleaning the bathroom, mopping the floor, vacuuming, washing windows, even cooking & going grocery shopping are considered exercise. When I log all my activities into a tracking tool & see how many calories I burned, I feel like I've accomplished something. It's motivating!
#3 - From a purely volume perspective, I really didn't eat all that much - but from a calorie perspective - well, it's no wonder I got so big!
#4 - In order for the scale to move in the right direction, I MUST limit my salt intake and I MUST drink water. The least little bit of salt winds up pushing the scale up 1 or 2 pounds in a day! And while I know it is "water weight", if I'm honest with myself, it is still discouraging to see the scale creep up even a pound... So--- I am trying to remove it from my diet & it isn't easy.
#5 - I must weigh myself daily - at the same time & on the same scale & the scale must be in the same exact spot on the floor. I do this to focus on weight change - and deviating from any of these can cause the weight change to not measure accurately! I find it so odd that if I move my scale to the left or right, that my weight will change - within seconds - so there is something to this theory - for me at least. I'm a science focused person, so I do need to see changes in the scale and be able to correlate them to my food intake--- No once a week weigh in for me - been there, done that & failed.
#6 - I do like vegetables. And while I prefer pasta, potatoes and rice (in that order), I really can do without a ton of it if I have good veggies on the plate as well. I toss them in olive oil, add some seasonings & roast them to bring out the sweetness or the intense savory flavor. Meat - well, I can take it or leave it...
#7- I eat candy when I want to eat candy - like today after a particularly hard day at work, I went to the store and got 1 Snickers bar. The key is that I can't buy the pack with lots of little candy inside because if it here, I will eat it! Same goes for muffins - so I will only be making these on Saturday when I know I will be taking them to church to share on Sunday!
#8 - While I am much bigger than I want to be -( I've got between 40 & 50) more pounds to go, I feel great that I have actually lost 30 pounds! I don't look like I want, but my good curves are beginning to show again and that is a good motivator to choose my foods wisely.
#9 - Kitty was right. After 12 weeks on the diet it got considerably easier to stick with it. I've been on for almost 6 months & with the exception of when I am baking, I dono't really feel deprived.
#10 - 10 pounds lost does not correlate to 1 pants size! That's nuts. I have lost 30 pounds and I have only went down a little over 1 pants size! I have lost plenty of inches off my waist, but my hips, thighs and butt are moving at a much slower pace. So while plenty of people say "throw the scale out & watch your clothes"... that would never work for me! I don't loose weight in a specific spot... I loose weight all over. so while 20 pounds lost did show up in my face and my hands (my ring started slipping off), it didn't show up that much on the lower half of my body. Without the daily scale, I would have never been able to stick with this process so long. I need my scale! I'm even thinking about taking it on the cruise with me in 8 weeks!
#11 - To be successful, I have to be fanatically strict about my food when I am traveling! Eating in airports is rarely good for me. Too much salt and sugar... just too much of everything! I have to make sure I eat before meetings (so I can avoid the muffins, bagels & croissants they always put out around 9:30 or so). And I have to drink water! For some reason when I eat junk while I'm traveling it seems to send the scale up faster than when I am home... Odd, but I've found it to be true (for me at least).
#12 - So going back to the beginning... after 6 months, I still hate exercise & won't be doing any "standard" exercises any time soon ( or ever!). I have, started living like I did pre beseness (that might not be a word -lol)... I did not get in the car to go to a store that was a 1/2 mile away. I did not sit for 9-10 hours a day without taking time to eat lunch - even if lunch was only a slice of pizza!; I did not eat pasta every chance I got. I did however, eat popcorn at the movies, I ate something every morning & I ate lunch every day. Dinner was often skipped because I truly wasn't hungry. I enjoyed the outside & enjoyed the neighborhood. I went dancing, I tried new things. In essence, I moved more. And since I have now hit the inevitable plateau, my plan is to move more!
Sunday, September 16, 2012
What I saw when he picked up a puppy...
At that very moment I remembered why I love him so.
These are not the qualities that I see in the busyness of every day life - but they are the ones that are there inside him. Sometimes they have to crack the shell to get out - but they are there... These are the qualities of love - - - the ones that I remember whenever I am anxious about getting married again. The ones that bring me peace... and joy.
Monday, September 10, 2012
September 11
September 11, 2001. A day I will never forget, nor understand.
I was sitting in my office in Westerville, OH going about my day. All of a sudden a woman walked hurriedly by saying something about "we've been attacked". I didn't know what she was talking about. I went into one of the rooms with a TV and looked up & saw a plane flying into the World Trade Center. My first thought was "Oh my God, that poor pilot" because surely the pilot must have had a heart attack & went off course & the plane ACCIDENTALLY flew into the tower. I assumed it was a small plane - not a jumbo jet. I worried about the pilot, the [probably few] people on the plane and certainly for the people in the office building. Undoubtedly some people were hurt - if not killed. "Lord Have Mercy" , I thought.
But then, another plane went into the building & I realized that "we" were being attacked. Now I am simply mad! Who the hell would fly a plane into the WTC? What the hell is wrong with people? Are human beings just getting more ignorant and cruel by the second? Grrrrr! Whatever idiots were flying those planes surely didn't have a beef with all the people inside the buildings or the city that I love so much! How dare they destroy so many lives in the blink of an eye! I don't give a crap what happened to them that upset them! How dare they????!!!! Idiots!!!
Then I saw the towers begin to crumble, people screaming and running in terror. I saw the firefighters and police officers doing their jobs & knew that each of them were in harms way.
And I thought of Sammy--the man who I married & bore 3 sons with. The marriage that years later collapsed and shattered my heart into a million pieces - leaving me hurt and angry at him, his family & the whole messed up situation. At that moment - at the moment I saw the towers begin to crumble, I worried about that man. He was a NYC police officer. He could be down there in that mess, that rubble. My children had already lost him once through our less than amicable divorce... my God, were they going to loose him to death? Death at the hands of idiots, no less! Everything in me now turned from anger for the idiots flying the planes & compassion for the people who had died... to terror!
Terror not borne of fear for my life, but terror that came from the possibility that my children may loose their father! "Dear Lord", I prayed, "PLEASE TAKE CARE OF SAMMY!" Tears welled up in my eyes as I thought about the possibility that my boys would have to endure any more pain. Hadn't their lives been difficult enough by the divorce, by me moving, getting sick, being poor, etc., etc., etc. "Please God" I continued to pray, "please don't do this to my boys". And so I tried to call him but the lines were down. I called every relative and friend I had in the NYC area (which were all my relatives!). Couldn't get through.
So I went home. To be with my boys. To pray and pray and pray! To ask the Blessed Mother to pray for Sammy's safety. To ask the Holy Spirit to guide Sammy's footsteps. To ask St. Michael to protect him from death. To ask God to spare my children this pain.
We sat around the TV watching the horror show over and over--- it was painful, but we could not look away. I recalled the bombing at the WTC years earlier & the smugness I'd felt in 1993 ("of course 'they' can't take down the WTC with a bomb! Idiots! ") I didn't feel very smug now... quite the contrary... vulnerable!
Two days past before we would hear from our family. No immediate family members were lost - but we all seemed to know someone who either worked in the towers, or was a fire fighter, police officer or paramedic who was hurt or killed. No one had talked to Sammy... not even Stacey. And as I realized that Sammy may indeed be hurt, the pain and anger of the divorce subsided and I was recalling only good memories of this man who I had once loved. I was remembering all his good qualities... all those reasons why I had said "I do" so many years earlier. My pain from the past dissolved. Unconsciously, I let the past go.
My heart grew heavy - even as I assured my boys "don't worry, your dad is fine! He is just busy & can't get to a phone. He is helping people." They didn't believe me and with every hours' passing I was beginning to not believe me.
And just as all hope was beginning to slip away, he called! Alive, safe, unharmed.... he had been in Staten Island when this all occurred - in the station house --- the "1 - 2 - 0" as the cops called it - doing paperwork! Thank You God!
Relief swept my entire being. The boys relaxed. I said a prayer of thanksgiving; and then went back to praying for the dead - for the innocent and the "guilty". I turned the horror show off & rather than dwelling on "those horrible people", I began to dwell on all the children who would be without their parent. And I prayed for them.
I still pray for them today & for all children who have lost a parent.
I have come to realize that while I have not given my children the idyllic life that I dreamed of giving them, they are still fortunate because regardless of anything else, they have always had their parents - parents who love them with every breath we breathe.
Today I continue to pray for the children who lost their parent to this senseless violence. I continue to thank God for sparing Sammy the wrath of death. And I thank God for allowing me to let go of the pain of the past.
I will never understand why any of this occurred - but I continue to believe that God has a plan--- for the living and dead. He is the writer who does not need backspace, delete or spell check.
HE'S got this...
I was sitting in my office in Westerville, OH going about my day. All of a sudden a woman walked hurriedly by saying something about "we've been attacked". I didn't know what she was talking about. I went into one of the rooms with a TV and looked up & saw a plane flying into the World Trade Center. My first thought was "Oh my God, that poor pilot" because surely the pilot must have had a heart attack & went off course & the plane ACCIDENTALLY flew into the tower. I assumed it was a small plane - not a jumbo jet. I worried about the pilot, the [probably few] people on the plane and certainly for the people in the office building. Undoubtedly some people were hurt - if not killed. "Lord Have Mercy" , I thought.
But then, another plane went into the building & I realized that "we" were being attacked. Now I am simply mad! Who the hell would fly a plane into the WTC? What the hell is wrong with people? Are human beings just getting more ignorant and cruel by the second? Grrrrr! Whatever idiots were flying those planes surely didn't have a beef with all the people inside the buildings or the city that I love so much! How dare they destroy so many lives in the blink of an eye! I don't give a crap what happened to them that upset them! How dare they????!!!! Idiots!!!
Then I saw the towers begin to crumble, people screaming and running in terror. I saw the firefighters and police officers doing their jobs & knew that each of them were in harms way.
And I thought of Sammy--the man who I married & bore 3 sons with. The marriage that years later collapsed and shattered my heart into a million pieces - leaving me hurt and angry at him, his family & the whole messed up situation. At that moment - at the moment I saw the towers begin to crumble, I worried about that man. He was a NYC police officer. He could be down there in that mess, that rubble. My children had already lost him once through our less than amicable divorce... my God, were they going to loose him to death? Death at the hands of idiots, no less! Everything in me now turned from anger for the idiots flying the planes & compassion for the people who had died... to terror!
Terror not borne of fear for my life, but terror that came from the possibility that my children may loose their father! "Dear Lord", I prayed, "PLEASE TAKE CARE OF SAMMY!" Tears welled up in my eyes as I thought about the possibility that my boys would have to endure any more pain. Hadn't their lives been difficult enough by the divorce, by me moving, getting sick, being poor, etc., etc., etc. "Please God" I continued to pray, "please don't do this to my boys". And so I tried to call him but the lines were down. I called every relative and friend I had in the NYC area (which were all my relatives!). Couldn't get through.
So I went home. To be with my boys. To pray and pray and pray! To ask the Blessed Mother to pray for Sammy's safety. To ask the Holy Spirit to guide Sammy's footsteps. To ask St. Michael to protect him from death. To ask God to spare my children this pain.
We sat around the TV watching the horror show over and over--- it was painful, but we could not look away. I recalled the bombing at the WTC years earlier & the smugness I'd felt in 1993 ("of course 'they' can't take down the WTC with a bomb! Idiots! ") I didn't feel very smug now... quite the contrary... vulnerable!
Two days past before we would hear from our family. No immediate family members were lost - but we all seemed to know someone who either worked in the towers, or was a fire fighter, police officer or paramedic who was hurt or killed. No one had talked to Sammy... not even Stacey. And as I realized that Sammy may indeed be hurt, the pain and anger of the divorce subsided and I was recalling only good memories of this man who I had once loved. I was remembering all his good qualities... all those reasons why I had said "I do" so many years earlier. My pain from the past dissolved. Unconsciously, I let the past go.
My heart grew heavy - even as I assured my boys "don't worry, your dad is fine! He is just busy & can't get to a phone. He is helping people." They didn't believe me and with every hours' passing I was beginning to not believe me.
And just as all hope was beginning to slip away, he called! Alive, safe, unharmed.... he had been in Staten Island when this all occurred - in the station house --- the "1 - 2 - 0" as the cops called it - doing paperwork! Thank You God!
Relief swept my entire being. The boys relaxed. I said a prayer of thanksgiving; and then went back to praying for the dead - for the innocent and the "guilty". I turned the horror show off & rather than dwelling on "those horrible people", I began to dwell on all the children who would be without their parent. And I prayed for them.
I still pray for them today & for all children who have lost a parent.
I have come to realize that while I have not given my children the idyllic life that I dreamed of giving them, they are still fortunate because regardless of anything else, they have always had their parents - parents who love them with every breath we breathe.
Today I continue to pray for the children who lost their parent to this senseless violence. I continue to thank God for sparing Sammy the wrath of death. And I thank God for allowing me to let go of the pain of the past.
I will never understand why any of this occurred - but I continue to believe that God has a plan--- for the living and dead. He is the writer who does not need backspace, delete or spell check.
HE'S got this...
Wednesday, August 22, 2012
Ahhh...Vacation! Hmmm....Vacation? And...I'm Melting :-)
I wasn't sure what to expect.
We'd certainly been away for a day or so together before, but never for more than that--- never with the express notion of "being on vacation". So, the fact that we were on vacation was a big thing.
Forget about the destination..."Being on vacation" means different things to different people. To me, it means...
- sleeping in ---in a king size bed with soft sheets.
- Getting up in the morning & just lazying around for a while with my coffee.
- Taking a long hot shower - while the room is cool, so when I get out the cool air hits my skin!
- Brunch in a nice restaurant--- not worrying about the cost of every single thing--- and not worrying about the calories of every single thing that goes into my mouth.
- Sitting on a park bench, watching the world go by... admiring the differences in sights from my normal day.
- Visiting places or things that I have never seen before - or that I did see before & am dying to take you to because I just want you to see what I see. (This is such a dangerous thought when you are engaged to oil and you are water! LOL)
Well! It turns out that other than "sleeping in" - (he gets up before the chickens--- before the roosters!!! EVERY DAY!), "being on vacation" meant doing what I wanted to do - no questions asked (wow!). It meant...
- not being upset every time we hit a bump in the planning road.
- going into museums and letting his guard down so he could enjoy the displays... not focused on race, gender, the economics of the artist - or the moment... preconceived notions were left at the door so that when he saw beauty, he could actually see it! And appreciate it! And now he is hungering for it! Longing to see the miracle of "simple" blown glass formed into something that beckons your head to turn in it's direction; to see artifacts from people who lived so long ago; to hear the majesty of history & determination by humans to come back from disasters even stronger; to know the hope that they certainly "should not" have had - yet they did.
- getting into the hot tub that was overflowing with chlorine "just to see" if it would soothe our aching muscles
- swimming - because it is the exercise I can do that doesn't make my back scream with pain
- giving me a kiss even when I have 'coffee breath"
- It meant not worrying about every cent - not going overboard --- simply appreciating our good fortune to be able to get away.
"Don't you want to ...?" I'd ask;
"We always do what I want to do, let's do what you want to do." he'd reply.
At that very moment, all my cares melted, all my fears about becoming a "wife" and he becoming a "husband" melted away... because loving someone gives you a warm feeling inside, but being loved & appreciated by that someone makes your insides melt.
And... I'm melting... :-)
Monday, August 6, 2012
The world needs more of these people!
A few weeks ago, Polly Anna told me she had skin cancer. While I was with her I tried to make light of this... "it's treatable/curable", I'd say. "Don't worry - God would never take my best friend away--- see, Polly Anna - it's all about me!" I'd quip. And she would still worry, but for a minute she would smile. Hopefully it bought her relief from the constant worry that comes with cancer.
Today, Polly Anna went to the doctor for a follow up & got "really, really good news". When I read this on her Facebook post, I sighed with relief. Not only because I didn't want to see my friend suffer with this terrible disease, but more importantly because I know in my heart what a special person she is.
The world needs more people like Polly Anna! The world needs people who...
She not only sees the good in everyone, she sees the potential, the promise, the hope and the joy in each and every person she encounters. In short - she DOES see Jesus in every person she meets.
The world needs more people like Polly Anna - many, many more.
For now, I am happy to call Polly Anna my friend - and I am indeed blessed that she is in the world I inhabit.
Dear God - Thank you so much for keeping Polly Anna safe! We really need her!"
Today, Polly Anna went to the doctor for a follow up & got "really, really good news". When I read this on her Facebook post, I sighed with relief. Not only because I didn't want to see my friend suffer with this terrible disease, but more importantly because I know in my heart what a special person she is.
The world needs more people like Polly Anna! The world needs people who...
- For their birthday celebration ask everyone to bring a winter hat that she can then drop off at the homeless shelter.
- Worry about their neighbors and go out of their way to make the lives of the less fortunate a little better
- Is a good mother to their child & other's children when their parents are unable to care for their babies properly
- See the beauty all around us
- Are not afraid to step outside of the world into which she was born to get to know someone else - whose ideas and ideals were not so conventional
- Will hold the single mother's hand when she is wracked with fear that her children are going down the wrong path - where Polly Anna says and BELIEVES that "it will be okay"
- Will allow their children to follow their dreams --- respectfully & responsibly
- Sees the positive EVERY SINGLE DAY - regardless of her circumstance
- Believes in first loves and second loves
- Believes in true love
- Will be their friend's cheering section - because she knows it is what the friend truly wants - even when Polly is not so sure
- Who will work bingo in a smoke filled room for 4 years to ensure their child received the eduction of her choice
- Who walks the walk and talks the talk when it comes to most everything - but especially [Catholic] Social Justice teachings...
- Value the love of a family - given or chosen.
She not only sees the good in everyone, she sees the potential, the promise, the hope and the joy in each and every person she encounters. In short - she DOES see Jesus in every person she meets.
The world needs more people like Polly Anna - many, many more.
For now, I am happy to call Polly Anna my friend - and I am indeed blessed that she is in the world I inhabit.
Dear God - Thank you so much for keeping Polly Anna safe! We really need her!"
Sunday, July 15, 2012
Thank You
Just thought I'd say "Thank You" to the man that I love...
Thank you for cutting the grass
Thank you for edging the grass - something that looks so nice, but I would never do
Thank you for getting the 25 bags of mulch out of the truck, even though you were tired
Thank you for washing dishes
Thank you for cooking the fish
Thank you for fixing the car
Thank you for vacuuming the dog hair
Thank you for having the sense of smell as good as a drug hunting blood hound
Thank you for putting up the ceiling fan
Thank you for moving the boxes into the living room, then into the basement
Thank you for hanging the picture in the right spot - just a little bit over
Thank you for painting the deck
Thank you for painting the walls especially since you hate to paint
Thank you for pulling up the smelly carpet from the basement floor
Thank you for pulling the staples and nails out of the stairs
Thank you for smiling
Thank you for noticing the 22 pounds lost just when I needed it to be noticed
Thank you for loving me with or without the 22 pounds
Thank you for choosing the ring I would love - classic, simple & elegant
Thank you for never forgetting to say "thank you"
And most importantly, Thank you for BEING THANKFUL FOR US!
Thank you for cutting the grass
Thank you for edging the grass - something that looks so nice, but I would never do
Thank you for getting the 25 bags of mulch out of the truck, even though you were tired
Thank you for washing dishes
Thank you for cooking the fish
Thank you for fixing the car
Thank you for vacuuming the dog hair
Thank you for having the sense of smell as good as a drug hunting blood hound
Thank you for putting up the ceiling fan
Thank you for moving the boxes into the living room, then into the basement
Thank you for hanging the picture in the right spot - just a little bit over
Thank you for painting the deck
Thank you for painting the walls especially since you hate to paint
Thank you for pulling up the smelly carpet from the basement floor
Thank you for pulling the staples and nails out of the stairs
Thank you for smiling
Thank you for noticing the 22 pounds lost just when I needed it to be noticed
Thank you for loving me with or without the 22 pounds
Thank you for choosing the ring I would love - classic, simple & elegant
Thank you for never forgetting to say "thank you"
And most importantly, Thank you for BEING THANKFUL FOR US!
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